Is Your Family Squashing Your Dreams?

When my best friend Anna lost her husband, she could not find a job to supplement her small pension. She even discovered she was in debt, and inheritance tax put her in a situation she could not handle - and her children were no help at all. They pressed her to sell her lovely home - which was not really too big, and the garden, which she loved dearly, and pay all the tax and debts with the profit of the sale, and live in a measly "Home for the Elderly" - which was so expensive, she'd have little of her pension left for her own use.

As children are - they said - sadly - they could not borrow her the money - they had no savings of their own - or if they had - it was aside for this, that, and the other. They were grown up people - those children - but used to getting money from home for anything extra that came up - well - I think you know the story. They were living a lifestyle they could not really afford, and as long as there was daddy around to stuff the holes in their finances - all was fine. Mother? Oh - ??? Nobody had ever thought about what she should do once dad was no longer around- ! His life insurance just covered the major debt - all those overdrafts for helping out the children with all kinds of "emergencies".

I suggested to her to start making money online- after all, she'd been a chief-secretary and knew how to express herself, had many interests and was creative. Guess what happened:

her daughters were keeping her busy with all kinds of requests to run errors for them, the son brought her his ironing, and all of them told her to stay away from her computer, as it was just a waste of time.

You see, despite their best intentions, the sad fact is...

Your friends and loved ones may be the VERY REASON that success has been eluding you!

Have you ever heard the words...and never mind your age --- 16 or 60 ---

"Why don't yo just go out and get a real J.O.B."- you can start anytime McDonalds?

or

"All you do is sit around and play on the computer
all day - when are you going to make some REAL money?"

or

"Spend all the time you want - just don't spend any money..."

And so on, and so on...

It's time to take a stand and purge the Dream Stealers from your life once and for all!

"Fire Your Family" right here:

I bought Anna this book - which built up her self esteem and stopped her self-sabotage. Within 30 days she was right on track and the money kept trickling in. Empowered by the success- she became even bolder, and is a successful marketer. She was able to come to an arrangement with the tax authorities to pay off the tax in instalments (and only because of her extra income she could afford to pay it) and thus - stay on in the little semi-detached house and garden she so much loved, within the neighbourhood she'd known for all those years, and she was even able to get a new car when her old one gave up.

Anna may not the type of person to become an internet millionaire - however - a few months later she had even enough money stashed aside to help her daughter yet once again after she had a car crash and an expensive repair - and she cannot live without a car (although she could - just with a little less comofrt) ....and Anna felt really good about it.

Anna is a "giving" person and always has been and will be - and she loves to give. Nothing wrong with that. In fact - without such people our world would collapse. Having money of her own again - it built up her self esteem even a 1000 times more that she was now "able" to give again. Only since she's found her own worth and strength to succeed - has she been able to do this - and it makes her feel great.Having been used to "giving" she just could not stand the thought of being at the "receiving" end of the stick - and - what's worse - nobody being able or willing to help her out of her tight spot - but the only suggestion (of her family) being to giving up everything she loved - her home and garden! That was the moment I said to her: fire your family!!

Will Anna turn into an online millionaire marketer? Maybe she does - who knows - she may be going from strength to strength - or stay where she is now - it's ok.She's way better from where she started off - so much fore sure.

Where my commercial streak comes in - I'd say - f--- your daughter - save your money - invest it in more marketing and make even much more money for yourself - but - there again - I'm not saying so - because - unless she finds this path all on her own - all my talk will be void.

Anyhow- her's is a true story of an everyday person - those people we secretly think to be "too good for this world" who found her way out from a tight spot- just because she - at the right time in life - recovered her self esteem and took life into her own hands. Each of us has so many talents and gifts - which - can be monetized - if you believe in yourself. This "make money online" is just ONE of the many 1000 possibilities - and I chose this for her because I could help and she could express herself well and was well read etc. - but each and every one of us can/may find their own ways - with this little guide- are you good with your hands- super - you connect well to people? Super - these are all money making talents - just find them.

I say MAY - because I'm honest enough - in some cases - when you find yourself in a deep void - real counselling is best. But if no money is found for that - and we all know that good counselling does not come cheap - and the social services that should provide you with it make you wait for 6 months or more - this is next best - a kick in the butt to search for your own power to get out of self-sabotage.

If you know someone you love but see being blocked like this - and it's mostly women that fall into this fateful trap - you should buy them this book - it costs less than 2 coffees and cake- print it out - put it in an envelope - paint a heart on it - and say - look - I've seen something online here that I thought was a real help - it brought me so many good and fresh ideas that helped me immensely - you should read it, too. 2 minutes - and you may have helped a friend to a new life.

"Fire Your Family" right here

I also have a gift for you: send me your paypal receipt to: bonusbybonny@gmail.com, and you'll receive an enlightening booklet:

"Self Empowerment - Using People to Unlock You Social Potential."

You know these people who are able to help everyone and it only costs them a 25 seconds phone-call and never any real money - and so everybody LOVES them? They are extremely popular and seem to swim through life with such ease.

The secrets to this enviable social potential are so simple to implement - and can be implemented tomorrow with little effort - and no great talent is needed - in fact - they have been inside you all the time and just need "coming out".

It's a life-changing book, Anny is not my only example - but this article would become too long if'd told you about the others. As we all know, we may love our friends, we see their problems, but although we listen to them and give well meant advice, no change will take place until they make the decision to change themselves "inwardly".

This applies to people trying to slim and lose weight, being addicted to drugs, to people trying to make money online with many hours of lonesomeness in front of a computer, to shy people, to lonely people, to all people who WANT to change but cannot find the strength within them to "start" - it's like self-sabotage. They KNOW how much they hurt themselves - but some masochistic streak keeps on driving them doing the same things over and over.

I think we've all been in such a state at sometime at our life - something - soneone - has helped us out of it.

And of course the book does not imply to cut all ropes to the people you love most dearly, but to give your life balance and pursue your own dreams and goals, and no longer be exploited by "so called" well meaning people who think you have nothing better to do but be their errand Girl Friday for no pay or pocket money. This - will never get you anywhere near to building up your self-esteem and self worth!